Whether you just found out you’re pregnant or
you’ve known for a few months, announcing your pregnancy to
family and friends can be a lot of fun. Some may want to wait
until a certain time during their pregnancy, while others want
to call everyone immediately after finding out themselves.
Telling The Father
Have a romantic dinner for two with candle
lights - it may be your last time for a while, between
morning sickness and raising your little one. Serve up baby
carrots, baby back ribs and anything else you can think as
baby. At the end, pour apple juice instead of wine and hand him
a present. Inside you can have a tiny baby bib that says, “I
heart My Daddy” or a pair of baby booties.
If you can’t tell the father right away because
he’s away on business or deployed, try sending him a care
package. Inside the box place a few baby items, everything in
blue and pink and a baby naming book in the center. Place a
note on top of the book with, “I need a name soon, I’ll be here
by June.” Or whenever the baby is due.
You can also see how long it
takes him to figure it out. Go to the dollar store and
pick up a bunch of small baby items, a bib, rattle,
bottle, booties, etc. For a week, leave an item laying
around the house where he is bound to find them. At the
end of the week if he hasn’t figured it out yet, prepare
the big gift. Have a large teddy bear sitting at the
dinner table in the seat beside him, make sure there is a
bib wrapped around him and maybe a sign that says Hi
Daddy.
Telling Family and
Friends
Show up to a family gathering wearing a shirt
that announces that you're expecting. These days there are a ton of shirts
out there with clever sayings, “Baby on Board,” “A Bun in the
Oven,” or something related to the pregnancy. The moment you
walk in or take off your jacket everyone will figure it out
without you ever having to say a word. Now, get ready for the
tears and excitement. You’ll be answering a ton of
questions.
If you already have children you may want to
call the grandparents up and tell them that the next Christmas
they may want to add one more to the list.
If this is the first grandchild, you may want
to get a bracelet link for your mom that reads, “#1 Grandma” or
grandparent t-shirts. This will not only be a great present for
them but something they will cherish and love forever.
No matter when you spread the news it can be a
lot of fun, just think creative and let the pieces fall. You
may even want to try catching all of it on video, so think
ahead and prepare for the BIG moment.