Your child’s showing all the
signs of being ready to potty train. That’s great! But
now, where do you start?
Explain to your toddler that going potty is a normal process
of life and everyone does it, even animals. Talk with them
about the toilet, a special place where they can potty just
like the big kids. Tell him how the potty works and let him try
flushing himself. Explain that they will be wearing underwear
and not diapers. Find some educational and entertaining videos
of their favorite characters learning to go potty. Be sure to
involve other family members in the process and emphasize the
importance of consistency during this process.
Make a special trip to the store and purchase new underwear
with your toddler. Let them have a voice in what you get. The
underwear will have much more significance if your toddler
helped choose them.
Overalls, pants with lots of buttons, snaps or zips, tight
or restrictive clothing and oversized shirts will all be an
obstacle to your child during this process. Put these kinds of
clothes away for the time being.
Decide whether or not you're going to use pull-ups, training
pants or regular underwear and try to stick with this decision
so your child has consistency and isn't confused. Think about
whether or not you want to use rewards or not. Figure out a
strategy on how to handle potty issues when you're away from
home.
If your child is in child care, ask your provider for their
advice and make sure there aren't any hard and fast rules the
center or caregiver has in place that may be an issue. Let them
know that you're going to start and enlist their help with the
process.
Praise your child for each successful trip to the potty, and
comfort them when accidents happen and try to remain patient
and calm when they do. Avoid using candy or other treats as
reinforcement. Let them know that it will take a while to get
the hang of using the potty, and encourage and praise each
attempt they make. With consistency, encouragement and praise,
they’ll soon be completely trained.