Putting your toddler to bed
can sometimes be an exercise in frustration. If you have
experienced this, you might want to consider one of the
following techniques to make bedtime a peaceful
time.
Be consistent about bed times and waking times. Your toddler
is more likely to respond positively if he’s used to a
specified schedule. The earlier your child’s routine is
established, the easier it is to put them to bed without
incident.
Make the activities the same every night, and make the time
before bed quiet and peaceful. Whether a parent tells the child
a story, provides a bedtime snack, puts in a short video, or
plays quiet games before putting the child in bed, consistency
is the key.
Try not to lie in bed with your toddler until he falls
asleep. This might actually have the opposite effect, and might
encourage your child to stay awake, and ask for drinks of water
and more bedtime stories. An alternative might be telling your
toddler you’re going to complete a chore and that you’ll come
back in and check on them in a few moments. It’s most likely
that the child will fall asleep while waiting for mom or dad to
return. You might also want to talk about your child’s day with
them. Keep your tone soft and quiet, and try not to excite your
child in the process. Turning this into a nighttime story with
your child as the main character is a fun option as well.
As the child grows older, if a consistent bedtime is
maintained the task will become easier. The most important
issue is consistency and repetition. If the child can expect
the same thing every night, and these customary tasks are
pleasant, bedtime can become a delightful family ritual. If
however, your child is continually resisting sleep, talk with
your child’s pediatrician, as there might be a medical problem
at the root of it.